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32 The Longing of the Bride’s Heart


Copyright © 2020 Michael A. Brown

‘…and not only to me, but also to all who have longed for his appearing.’ (2 Tim. 4:8)
      The Holy Spirit, the promised gift of the Father to Christ’s bride, is the seal of the covenant which God has made with us in Christ.  He is the guarantee of God’s promises to us regarding that which is to come in the eternal kingdom of God.  One form of the Greek word arrhabon, used in several verses to describe the Holy Spirit, meant an engagement ring, that which is given to a betrothed as a promise of the marriage that will one day take place (Eph. 1:13-14; 2 Cor. 1:22, 5:5).  So, in this present time on earth, we live in a committed covenant relationship with Jesus which is sealed by the Holy Spirit, whose presence within us is a promise of what is to come.
      Through the Holy Spirit’s ministry, the Father is preparing us as a bride for his Son.  So the Holy Spirit creates within us an intimate spiritual union with the Lord: we are one in spirit with him (1 Cor. 6:17).  To have been indwelt by the Holy Spirit is to have been indwelt by the Spirit of love for God.  So yearning, love and affection for God are birthed within us by him, causing us to want to seek God, and to hunger and thirst for his word and presence:
O God, you are my God, earnestly I seek you; my soul thirsts for you, my body longs for you…’
(Ps. 63:1)
      I have found many times that if I have neglected prayer or not been in God’s presence for a few days, for whatever reason, then my heart begins to yearn deep within me, and this compels me to return to him and to know once again the joy and peace that his presence brings.  I miss him…  God is love and he is deeply loving (1 John 4:8,16), and our relationship with him is grounded in this mutual love.  As our greatest heart friend, God yearns and desires that we live consistently out of the heart-warming love and intimacy of this spiritual union we have with him:
‘Love the LORD your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your strength.’ (Deut. 6:5)
‘My beloved is mine and I am his.’ (Song 2:16)
‘On my bed by night I sought him whom my soul loves.’ (Song 3:1 ESV)
      Because we are one in spirit with Jesus, we love him supremely above all other things.  We are betrothed to him.  He is our Beloved, and we are his bride:
‘I promised you to one husband, to Christ, so that I might present you as a pure virgin to him.’
(2 Cor. 11:2)
     The return of Christ for his bride is a cardinal doctrine of the Christian faith, and it is emphasised particularly in the apostle Paul’s two epistles to the Thessalonians.  Unfortunately, many churches today in the UK neglect to teach on this subject, but the early apostles taught it to believers as a foundational truth, exhorting them to live and wait with joyful anticipation for Christ’s return:
‘But our citizenship is in heaven, and from it we await a Saviour, the Lord Jesus Christ...’
(Phil. 3:20)
‘They tell how you turned to God from idols to serve the living and true God, and to wait for his Son from heaven, whom he raised from the dead – Jesus, who rescues us from the coming wrath.’
(1 Thess. 1:10)
‘…while we wait for the blessed hope – the glorious appearing of our great God and Saviour, Jesus Christ….’ (Titus 2:13)
‘...waiting for and hastening the coming of the day of God...’ (2 Peter 3:12)
      Jesus has promised to return for his bride, and he will come and take her to be with him in an event which we call the rapture.  However, Jesus does not know when he will come for us, only the Father knows this, just as a young Jewish bridegroom did not know when he would go to get his bride.  He would work preparing a room for his bride in his father’s house, but would wait for his father to tell him when all the necessary preparations had been completed, and that the time had finally come when he could go and get her, and bring her to his home:
‘In my Father’s house are many rooms; if it were not so, I would have told you.  I am going there to prepare a place for you.  And if I go and prepare a place for you, I will come back and take you to be with me that you also may be where I am.’ (John 14:2-3)
‘No one knows about that day or hour, not even the angels in heaven, nor the Son, but only the Father.’ (Matt. 24:36)
     Whenever I am out late in the evening, my wife invariably stays up and waits for me to come home.  She misses me, she loves and she yearns for me.  She looks for my return, and she is only happy and at peace when I have returned and we are together once again.  In a similar way, the return of our heavenly Bridegroom is the deepest longing of our heart, because we love him even though we have not yet seen him, and we wait expectantly and joyfully for the fulfilment of his promise:
‘Though you have not seen him, you love him.  Though you do not see him, you believe in him and rejoice with joy that is inexpressible and filled with glory...’ (1 Peter 1:8)
     So we look forward to and wait for Christ’s return.  The signs which Jesus spoke of in relation to his return are happening all around us in the world today.  In fact, they are happening at such an increasing pace that it is sometimes bewildering to see what is almost daily unfolding in the world!  For those who observe and understand, who watch and pray, we know that the time has come when the bride of Christ should look upward, because her redemption is drawing nigh.  It is right at the door! (Matt. 24:32-35).
     Jesus is coming back very soon for his bride, and we live in eager anticipation of this, ready for him to come.  A bride lives in the joy of her engagement in the present and, as time goes on, her daily life becomes increasingly controlled by her future perspective.  She loves her beloved dearly, and the nearer she gets to her special day, the more her mind is consumed by her preparations for the wedding to come.  She thinks and lives for what is coming, fixing the eyes of her heart on what is as yet still unseen (2 Cor. 4:18).
     For myself, the longer I live, the greater my inward longing to be with Christ grows.  And it is this inward yearning, this inward passion of love in our hearts for Jesus, this future perspective that determine the way in which we should live our lives.  The bride of Christ has given her heart to her Beloved and she keeps her love for him warm, preparing herself for his return (cf. Rev. 2:4-5).  She is known by his name, so she makes it her aim to live in such a way that honours and pleases him, by keeping his commands (John 14:23, 2 Cor. 5:9, 1 Thess. 4:1, 2 Tim. 2:4).  She does not want to disappoint him, she wants him to be pleased with her when he returns.  She remains faithful to him, living a self-controlled and pure life (Titus 2:11-14, 1 John 3:2-3).  She washes herself daily with the word of God and makes herself look radiant for him (Eph. 5:26-27). 
‘For the wedding of the Lamb has come, and his bride has made herself ready.’ (Rev. 19:7)
     Furthermore, when we live with our hearts warm with love for God, we then minister to others out of this love.  They feel it and sense it in us.  And we do everything as unto the Lord, because in our hearts we are doing it for him (Col. 3:23).  The wise and faithful steward loved his master and was looking out for his return, so he continued faithfully and joyfully with the tasks that had been assigned to him, working to his master’s expected standards.  Likewise, the five wise virgins prepared themselves for the bridegroom’s arrival by supplying themselves with the oil necessary to see them through the night-time festivities that would follow his return.  The servants who had been given five and two talents loved their master, and so they went out at once and invested these talents in order to gain more for him, knowing that this would please him on his return (Matt. 24:45 – 25:30).
     In the same way, the apostle Paul too loved Jesus with all his heart and longed for his appearing.  The things of this world meant nothing to him (Phil. 3:8).  He lived a fully committed and focused life, working day and night to fulfil the Lord’s purposes for him.  As he made clear to the believers in Philippi and Corinth, he lived daily with the tension within himself which was created by wanting to be with the Christ he loved so dearly, but knowing that he had to continue in God’s work here on earth:
‘For to me to live is Christ, and to die is gain...  I am hard pressed between the two.  My desire is to depart and be with Christ, for that is far better.  But to remain in the flesh is more necessary on your account.  Convinced of this, I know that I will remain and continue with you all, for your progress and joy in the faith...’ (Phil. 1:21,23-25)
‘Meanwhile, we groan, longing to be clothed with our heavenly dwelling...’ (2 Cor. 5:2)
‘We are confident, I say, and would prefer to be away from the body and at home with the Lord.’
(2 Cor. 5:8)
     Furthermore, Paul evidently believed that the return of Christ for his bride would happen in his own lifetime.  He expected to be alive when it happened.  This is clear from his use of the pronoun ‘we’ in his statements regarding the rapture:
‘...that we who are alive, who are left until the coming of the Lord...  Then we who are alive, who are left, will be caught up...’ (1 Thess. 4:15,17)
     However, as we all know, Jesus did not return in Paul’s lifetime.  In AD 67, when he wrote his final words to Timothy, it is clear that Paul knew he had reached the end of his life’s journey, and that he was soon going to be executed by Nero.  He knew then that he would pass away before the rapture happened, so it didn’t work out as he had hoped and expected.  Instead of being raptured, he was to pass straight into Christ’s presence to receive the reward due to him for his faithful service:
‘...the time of my departure has come. I have fought the good fight, I have finished the race, I have kept the faith.  Now there is in store for me the crown of righteousness, which the Lord, the righteous Judge, will award me on that day – and not only to me, but also to all who have longed for his appearing.’ (2 Tim. 4:6-8)
     And so similarly for us: we know that Jesus is coming back, and we wait expectantly for his return, but, as with Paul, it may turn out that it does not happen in our lifetime.  We too may eventually pass away in death before the rapture happens.  This unfulfilled longing is a characteristic of the Christian life.  And also, like Paul, we live daily with the inner tension of longing to be with Jesus in heaven, but knowing that we have to stay here on earth to continue with the responsibilities that he has given us.  We have to live by faith, not by fulfilled sight...
      Delay seems to be wrapped up in God’s end-time purposes (2 Peter 3:3-4, Rev. 10:6).  The Bridegroom is staying away for a long time (Matt. 24:48; 25:5,19), but the betrothed continues to look eagerly every day for his return, because her heart longs for him.  Impatience is normal in the face of delay, especially where a loved one is concerned, and it can perhaps breed inward frustration and sometimes even doubt, but it is tempered by the fact that we know that God’s purpose is trustworthy and will therefore be fulfilled.  In fact, every day that passes brings it one day nearer.  Mature love has learned to be patient in life and is willing to wait, because it knows the integrity of God’s character, and therefore knows that his promise will certainly be fulfilled sooner or later.  So as we trust God with the matter, we maintain our inward peace.  If we have to wait a little while longer, then so be it.  God knows his purpose: he too is waiting patiently, because he does not want anyone to perish eternally, but wants everyone to come to repentance (2 Peter 3:9).  And in the meantime, we can continue here on earth assured that the longing of our hearts will one day be fulfilled, and, when it is, it will prove to be an eternal tree of life which was well worth waiting for!
‘He which testifieth these things saith, “Surely I come quickly.”  Amen.  Even so,
come, Lord Jesus.’ (Rev. 22:20 AV)
‘…a longing fulfilled is a tree of life.’ (Prov. 13:12)
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